Flirting is an incredibly effective way to attract a woman. But many men struggle with it. A bit of guidance can make a huge difference. If you’re interested in mastering the art of flirting, you’ve come to the right place. Here are some tips you can use to catch a woman’s attention.
Flirt with Touch
Perhaps the easiest way to flirt with a girl is through touch. Be careful though; if your touch is unwanted, you will be called out on it.
Start out with small touches on the arms or shoulders, and make them quick! Do not linger for more than a second. She might feel trapped otherwise. If she seems receptive to your advances, you can increase the duration of your touches to a few seconds.
Flirting with touch can be a more effective way to score points because some women get tired of hearing the same (sometimes insincere) compliments over and over again. Check out Flirting Mistakes – Compliments Women Hate to see if you’re guilty of doing the same thing!
Flirt with Your Attention
Women like to be chased. Some people will deny it to death, but it’s true. It makes them feel wanted. It makes them feel valued. It makes dating fun and exciting. It’s why women continue to flirt when they’re in a relationship. You, as the man, get to play along because it will all pay off in the long run. A win-win, right?
If you show her too much affection, you could come across as desperate. It’s a sign you have nothing else to do with your time. It also demonstrates you have the potential to fall in love too soon and become too obsessive.
This is why some guys like to employ a bit of push and pull. Show her some attention. Make it clear that you’re interested. Then back off.
Flirt with Grand Gestures
Sure it’s easy to convey your message via text or email. But here’s our biggest tip: romantic gestures are still the most effective way of showing a woman that you’re thinking about them.
Show her your words match your actions and vice-versa. If you don’t know how to text a woman, she could easily dismiss you and assume you sent the same message to two other women. Go the extra mile and personalise your message.
If she mentioned her favourite book that night, send her a photo of you reading it. Or if you’re feeling generous, send her a first edition copy. A bouquet of flowers in her favourite color always speaks volumes. It’s the thought combined with the gift that counts.
Be smart about your approach and do some simple research. Have a look at the resources we provide like reading a woman’s flirting signals, how NOT to flirt in public and many more articles written specifically for guys chasing girls. Find all our Tips for Guys under Flirting Resources. You won’t be disappointed and, if you follow our advice, she won’t be disappointed either!