So Many Signs
Guys, you know what I’m talking about. You have been crushing on a girl for months, she seems to be giving you the positive vibes one minute, like a bite of the lip, and the next minute your feeling the chill as she freezes you out with folded arms and a scowl. So you ask you ask yourself the question: ‘Is she flirting with me, or does she just hate me?’
Is it ever possible to know when a woman is flirting with you? Well there is a chance you may never be sure. The woman is a complicated creature and her mating habits are still woefully understood, leaving the less complicated man throwing his hands in the air in exasperation.
But fear not confused men of the world, there are a few signs that indicate a woman probably is interested.
Follow the Signs
If a woman is trying to draw attention to her mouth, be it with a lick of the lip or the much less subtle, erotic eating of a banana, you can probably bet that is holding a little bit of interest. Likewise, if she is looking at your lips when you are talking instead of into your eyes (Note: It will be much easier to notice this if your not staring at her breasts.
If the girl mimics your body movements, it means she is already in tune with you, it doesn’t mean that she is making fun of you. It may not be wise to test out this principle with some wild arm movements…it’s definitely a more subtle thing.
A woman will become very tactile with a man that she finds attractive, she will use almost any excuse to touch you, and it is usually a touch that lingers. Show your mutual interest by guiding her gently with a hand placed gently in the small of her back.
Be aware of her body language. As cliche as it sounds, when a woman plays with her hair, looks at you from under her lashes and makes lingering eye contacts, she is flirting. The old ways are still the best.
Good luck with your flirting boys!