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What Men Really Mean

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What do men really mean? Guys can be such an enigma.

Guys can say a lot of things when they are trying to make a new romanitic connections. The chances are, you have heard all the lines many times before, but never really knew what they were actually trying to say to you. You know they are flirting with you, or at least you think they are flirting with you, but you wish they would just say whst they mean, instead of a standard line.

Well, here are some of the things guys say when they are getting their flirt on, and what they probably mean…

What They Say: “Your eyes are really beautiful.”

What They Mean: “I think you’re hot. I find you seriously sexually attractive, but if I tell you that I think your breasts are out of sight, you’re probably going to throw your dink in my face. Even if I do mean it as a complement.”

Men are always looking for ways to complement women they find attractive without coming across as creepy. Complementing the eyes is a safe option that is polite and non-offensive – he thinks you’re hot, but he doesn’t want to scare you off.

What They Say: “Let’s get coffee sometime.”

What They Mean: “I’m interested in you, but I’m not sure if I’m interested enough to spend an extended amount of time on a dinner date with

Want Relationship Success? Say Thanks

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For any kind of relationship success, you only need to say thank you

It seems the secret to a successful relationship is way more simple that anyone could have thought. It isn’t little surprise gifts, it isn’t sharing a Facebook page and it isnt a foot rub at the end of the day. The secret to relationshup success is saying thank you. And it is not just romantic relationships that benefit from the power of thank you, it is literally all relationships that can be strengthened.

It isn’t just good manners to say thank you, it can help maintain relationships. Think about it, when you hold a door open for someone and they don’t say thank you, doesn’t it make you furious? And that is just a stranger. So it stands to reason that it would be even more annoying if someone you are close too doesn’t bother to say thank you when the situation calls for it.

Thank you is proposd to be so important because of the ‘find-remind-and-bind’ theory of gratitude, first proposed by University of North Caroline psychologist, Sara Algoe. According to the theory: Gratitude – from someone saying thank you – starts new friendships (find), this orients people to exisiting social relationships (remind), and promotes exisitng relationships (bind).

So if you want to improve the state of any of your relationships, make sure you say thank you when someone does something for you. Or be rude and alone your whole life…whatever!

Read the full story on the Daily Mail.

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Flirting is Essential

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Evolutionary Psychologists Reveal that Flirting is Essential to the Human Races Survival

According to evolutionary psychologists the human race would not have progressed if it was not for flirting, as it is an essential courtship device. It turns out that flirting is a natural human instinct, much like the need to eat, drink, sleep and mate. It is something that is universal across all cultures – although flirting may be different across countries – and it is an important part of human interaction. We humans are unlikely to have made it to reprouction (i.e. mating) without it and since it is so important to our survival we are genetically programmed to do it – some more than others, am I right?

A lot of the flirting we do is done subconsciously, without us even realising we are doing it. According to research

Science Of Dating

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Interesting News in the Science of Dating – Playing Hard to Get Only Works for Men

Science of Dating

Every week there is another study emerging that discovers everything we thought we knew about dating was wrong.

DNA Dating

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Does Biology Hold The Key To Romantic Success? DNA Dating May Have The Answer

DNA Dating

There are a lot of unusual dating sites out there, so everyone can find the clown, spice-lover or Hobbit enthusiast of their dreams. Well now you can find a romantic match using your DNA as an indicator of who will be good for you.

The new dating site SingldOut.com sends out DNA testing kits to their users, who provide a sample of thier saliva to be sent back to a lab to test for two specific genetic markers. The first marker is for the controller gene of seratonin uptake, which has a role in how individuals respond to positive and negative emotions. The second marker relates to some of the genes involved in the immune response.

Within just a week, the results will appear on the users profile and they can compare them to the results of other users. According to Instant Chemisty, who supply the DNA testing kits, there is a strong correlation between different versions of seratonin and immune genes and long distance relationship.

Co-founder of Instant Chemistry, Ron Gonzalez , told USA Today: “With Online dating, you have socioeconomic factors fctors people try to match on – religion, how much you make. This is another layer on top of that so you can find better matches.”

However, DNA daing does not come cheap, it is around $53 a month for supscription and some scientists have questioned the actual usefulness of the Instant Chemistry method. One scientist who also spoke to USA Today said: “[By} looking at a very small number of genes…you simply cannot extrapolate a prediction from those genes to long term compatibility.”

So do you think DNA dating is something you would want to try?

Read the full story on the Daily Mail.

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